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Inclusion for neurodivergent children is not optional—it is a right.
My son Makaio is five years old. He has ADHD and Autism. We don’t cling to labels, but labels help others understand. Over the past few years, our family has invested more than $300,000 into early intervention therapies so he can thrive.
Makaio is bright, funny, and incredibly intelligent. He is chatty, talkative, and curious about everything. His challenges are not about his mind’s ability but about how it processes the world. His brain runs a million miles an hour, which makes sitting still and focusing like other kids nearly impossible.
Despite all our support, the truth is painful, everywhere we go, he has been kicked out, shunned, or excluded.
What Happened at Jiu Jitsu
Recently, I was told my son could no longer join his Jiu Jitsu group classes. The reason? “Safety.”
This is nonsense. I attend every single week and watch closely. Makaio has never been a danger to the other children. On Saturday mornings, with support, he participates just like any other child. He follows along, he engages, and he lights up with joy when he is there.
Yes, he can be loud. Yes, he sometimes talks over the teacher. Yes, he gets upset when he doesn’t win a game. But he is five years old, neurodivergent, and still learning how to navigate this world.
The suggestion was that Makaio should be in “1:1 classes.” But my son already receives 30 hours of one to one therapy every single week through Journey 2 Learn, and the team there are FANTASTIC. What he truly needs are group environments where he can build social skills, learn resilience, and gain confidence alongside other children. Excluding him does not keep anyone safe, it isolates him.

The Hidden Message Behind Exclusion
When an organisation says, “we can’t safely deliver classes,” what I really hear is, “your child isn’t wanted here.” How do I explain that to a five year old boy who just wants to belong?
Community sport should be about resilience, discipline, and inclusion. Hiding behind the word “safety” is not inclusion, it’s rejection in disguise.
This isn’t just about Jiu Jitsu. This is about how society treats children who don’t fit neatly into a box. Our kids deserve spaces where difference is welcomed, not punished.
To Every Mama of a Neurodivergent Child
Are you raising a child who doesn’t fit into the square box that society demands? Does your child think differently, act differently, and get excluded for it? Mama, I see you. I feel you. I am walking this path right alongside you.
I declare that I will stand for every excluded child. I will use my voice, my platform, and my reach, whether through blog posts, podcasts, or collaborations to drive change. If you know of a platform or podcast where I can share this message, please reach out: belle@surfthewildwoman.com.
Why Inclusion Matters
Every child deserves the chance to belong. For children like Makaio, group settings are not optional; they are essential. It is in these spaces that he learns to adapt, to share, and to grow alongside peers who may not think or act like him.
Inclusion is not an extra, it is a right. If we continue to push children like my son out, we are teaching them that the world does not want them. That is not the kind of world I want to raise my child in.
I will keep fighting for Makaio, and for every child like him. Because our kids deserve better than exclusion disguised as “safety.”
Gracie Barra Burleigh Heads are not inclusive of children with disabilities.

Spirit baby communication is real and gentle. It can show up as numbers, dreams, names, or symbols. These signs help you trust your path. They remind you that your baby is close. Let’s look at five simple ways your baby may be reaching you now. The journey to conception is not only physical, it’s spiritual. Many women feel subtle messages from their spirit baby long before pregnancy begins. These signs often appear in daily life, dreams, or sudden inner knowings. If you’ve been wondering whether your baby is reaching out to you, here are five powerful signs to look for.
1. Synchronistic Numbers
Have you been noticing repeating numbers like 111, 222, or 555? These synchronistic numbers are more than a coincidence. They are a sign that your consciousness is expanding. As your awareness opens, the doorway to spirit baby communication becomes clearer. Seeing these number patterns is often the first hint that your baby’s energy is near.
2. A Deep Inner Knowing
Sometimes you don’t need proof, you just know. This inner certainty might come as a feeling, a vision, or a sudden thought that carries truth. You might hear a whisper within or feel a strong sense of connection that cannot be explained. Trust this deep inner knowing. It is often your baby’s way of confirming their presence and reminding you that you are not alone on this journey.
3. Messages in Dreams
Spirit babies love to connect through dreams. Your dream state is where your conscious mind rests, and your subconscious opens. You may notice symbols, messages, or even conversations with your baby while you sleep. These dreams often feel different, more vivid, more emotional, or more real than regular dreams. Pay attention and keep a dream journal nearby. You might discover an ongoing dialogue with your baby.
4. Synchronicities with Names
Perhaps you’ve been drawn to a certain name for your future child. Then suddenly, you begin seeing that name everywhere, on signs, in books, or spoken by strangers. This is synchronicity at work. Spirit babies often plant these gentle reminders to validate your intuition and strengthen your bond. When a name keeps appearing, it may very well be the one your baby is guiding you toward.
5. Totems and Symbols
Every spirit baby carries a totem, something unique they send to you as their calling card. This could be an animal, a bird, a mythical creature, or even a shape or symbol. The meaning doesn’t need to make sense to anyone else. What matters is how it makes you feel. If a particular sign keeps showing up in your life and resonates deeply with you, trust it. It could be your baby’s personal way of saying hello.
Final Thoughts
Spirit baby communication is subtle yet powerful. The signs can be small but deeply meaningful if you stay open to them. Repeating numbers, vivid dreams, synchronicities, inner knowing, and unique totems are all ways your baby may be reaching out. The more you pay attention, the stronger the connection becomes.
If you’ve experienced these signs, take it as confirmation that your spirit baby is near and guiding you toward your path to conception.
If you’re looking for deeper confirmation and guidance, you can book a 1:1 Spirit Baby Session with me. In these sessions, we open a direct channel to your baby’s soul and bring through the messages meant just for you. Click here to book your session.

IVF can transfer an embryo—but it can’t prepare your womb for energetic alignment. That part? That’s your job. Many women believe science alone is enough to bring their baby earthside. But babies need more than medical protocols. They need your energy, your heart, and your womb ready to receive them.
In this blog, I’ll share the missing piece clinics often don’t talk about, explore the three most common energetic blocks, and give you gentle, soul-centered ways to reconnect with your womb and your spirit baby.
The Missing Piece in IVF
You may have done everything the clinic asked. You tracked your cycles. You followed every injection and scan to the letter. You possibly completed multiple cycles and faced disappointment. It’s easy to feel numb, let down—even broken.
But the truth is, science can do its part. What’s often missing is energetic alignment between your heart and womb. When that bridge is open, your body—and your soul—are ready. That’s when science meets spirit. And that’s when conception becomes possible in a different, more sacred way.
Three Energetic Blocks That Stop Conception
Supporting women through IVF has taught me that there are three common energetic blocks that often go unspoken about. These aren’t medical issues—they’re energetic.
1. Disconnection from the Womb
After months or years of trying, many women lose trust in their bodies. Each cycle that doesn’t work can make you feel broken. Your heart closes. Your womb, once a sacred vessel, becomes painful or even avoided.
Quick Reset: Rub your hands together to create warmth and energy. Place one hand on your heart, the other on your womb. Close your eyes, breathe deeply, and silently affirm: “My heart and womb are connected. I trust myself.” This simple ritual helps begin healing that energy flow.
2. Unprocessed Grief and Trauma
Every loss, every failed attempt leaves energy behind. If that grief sits unaddressed in your body, it becomes stress. And a body in stress can’t conceive.
Quick Win: Write a letter to your body. Let your heart speak. Or move to music—let your body release what words cannot. These gentle acts help grief move out, making safe space for your baby.
3. No Connection to the Spirit Baby
Your spirit baby often enters your energy field long before conception. But if your IVF journey is purely clinical, you might not feel their presence at all.
Simple Practice: Pause and invite your spirit baby into your awareness. Speak to them. Meditate with intention. When you open that dialogue, you bring them into your womb energetically.
Reclaiming Your Power
IVF can feel clinical, disempowering. But you hold more power than you know. One of the biggest myths in spiritual communities is the idea that needing IVF means failure. That’s not true.
Your path—with all its divine timing—is uniquely your own. When you align your heart, womb, and soul, IVF becomes a sacred companion—not a backup plan.
Ready to Take IVF from Clinical to Sacred?
If you’re ready to infuse soul into your IVF experience, you’re not alone—and there’s a beautiful way forward.
I created IVF Made Magical, a gentle 30-day journey designed to align science and spirit with intention and grace. This isn’t an alternative to IVF—it’s your spiritual ally through every stage. It helps you:
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Reconnect with your body on a deep level
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Open communication with your spirit baby
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Transform the clinical into the sacred
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