It took me eight long, soul stretching years to conceive my miracle baby. Along the way, I discovered wisdom that no clinic brochure or fertility book ever taught me. This is the spiritual, emotional, and energetic truth of trying to conceive, especially for women over 35 who are walking this path with deep longing and unwavering hope.
Here are the 15 most powerful lessons I learned:
1. Joy is the Gateway to Your Baby
Manifesting a baby from fear and desperation doesn’t work. These conscious starseed babies are drawn to lightness and joy. Your joy is an energetic invitation.
2. You Don’t Have to Earn Your Baby
You are not broken. You’re not being punished. You’re being refined into the mother your baby is coming to experience.
3. Diamonds Are Created Under Pressure
Your pain is sacred. The pressure you’re feeling is shaping you into a more conscious, powerful version of yourself.
4. High Frequency Babies Won’t Land into Chaos
These souls wait for energetic readiness, not a perfect to do list. Create a life that feels peaceful, not chaotic.
5. IVF Doesn’t Bypass Alignment
Science can’t override soul timing. No amount of IVF will bring your baby if you’re out of alignment with your soul’s path.
6. Your Fertility Journey is a Spiritual Initiation
Every delay, every heartbreak is an invitation to evolve. Your baby is guiding your expansion.
7. You Don’t Need a Perfect Life
Your baby doesn’t need the perfect house or the perfect job. Your baby needs you, fully expressed and aligned.
8. Be Your Own Cheerleader
You might not be understood by friends, doctors, or even partners. You must hold your vision and cheer yourself on.
9. Stop Giving Your Power Away
No doctor, therapist, or practitioner knows your body and baby like you do. Take back your power.
10. Let This Journey Transform You
Don’t resist the process. Let it crack you open. This is your becoming.
11. Traditional Fertility Advice is Outdated
You are not your age, your AMH, or your egg count. You are powerful, magical, and capable of miracles.
12. People Mean Well, But Their Advice Sucks
Protect your energy. Create boundaries around unsolicited advice, and share only with those who truly get it.
13. Doing Everything “Right” Doesn’t Guarantee a Baby
You can eat organic, detox, meditate, and still not conceive. Alignment is the key, not perfection.
14. Alignment is Everything
Are you saying yes when you mean yes? Are you living your truth? This frequency magnetises your baby.
15. You Get the Journey You Need
The true miracle isn’t just the baby, it’s the woman you become. Your baby chose you for a reason.
If you’re feeling inspired or seen by these words, I invite you to watch the full video where I go deeper into each of these 15 lessons. Let it be your guide, your comfort, and your reminder that your baby is already connecting with you on the soul level.
👉 Watch the full video now on YouTube: 15 Lessons I Learned After 8 Years TTC
With love,
Belle xo
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